“ About three days apart seems optimum physically speaking. What I’m talking about is men who abstain from having sex or masturbating altogether to achieve a more powerful and more pleasurable orgasm when they finally decide to gratify themselves. “Do this enough times and your body will become a giant, pulsating nerve of sensation and your orgasm, if and when you are brought over that edge, will be that much more intense and powerful,” reports VICE. To be clear, this isn’t the same as edging which is a technique for bringing yourself to the brink of orgasm but never actually pushing the ejector button. Having said that, I was at least vaguely intrigued by the community of men who sacrifice today’s pleasure for the sake of extra pleasure tomorrow.
Life is short and all I know is that these days, and all the days since the first day, I abide by my own psychological underpinning: I want to ejaculate as often as my significant other and my testicles will permit. Because who wants to delay that sort of gratification? And ever since then, the concept of delayed gratification has become altogether meaningless. I mention the onslaught of hormones and my discovering that even the slightest, most inconsequential encounter with cleavage was enough to jolt my dick into action not because I have a tendency to reveal private anecdotes about my life, but because ever since it started happening, it hasn’t stopped happening. Put another way: The longer you wait, the harder the blow. Psychologically speaking, however, delayed gratification describes the process of resisting the temptation of an immediate reward in preference for a later, ostensibly more gratifying reward, a notion that some men believe also translates to their ejaculative satisfaction. Before puberty and boobs annexed my adolescence, my mom, bless her, was always going on about the importance of delayed gratification - two words that, for me, mostly just meant that I’d have to wait a few more weeks before getting the latest pair of Jordans.
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